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Penis Stimulation: How to Give Your Man the Ultimate Blowjob

The glans is one of the most sensitive parts of the penis. They are at the tip or head of the penis, and if they’re properly stimulated, they produce a great deal of pleasure for the man. If you want to increase your man’s pleasure in privacy, and enhance his sensations, then don’t neglect this part of the phallus.

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While a lot (but not all!) of the focus on Blissful Cherry is stimulation and pleasure for the women, we thought it would be good to provide a comprehensive guide for penile stimulation.

In other words, the best ways to stimulate the penis!

Ensuring that both male and female partners are satisfed sexually is very important in any good relationship.

Therefore, we are here to help make sure your man is also completely satisfied.

Note that this guide is focusing on different focal points to apply during oral or manual penile stimulation.

There are a lot of regions, each with different characteristics, so let’s just get right into it!

Prefer to learn how to maximize your own sexual pleasure? Check out our guide to sex toys.

 

The Shaft

This makes up most of the size of the penis.

Although it lacks a lot of nerve endings, its sheer size means that any stimulation can really get a man going.

Simply stroking the shaft by grasping it at the base and pulling the shaft up and down is a great way to stimulate.

This is the most common way girls please the man – especially beginners!

But it’s a tried and true method that shouldn’t be neglected!

Using different speeds while stroking is also a great tip!

One final, great way to turn a man on, not only physically but visually as well, is to start low at the base, right at his testicles.

Look straight into his eyes, while slowly licking his shaft from base to head.

That will make your man go crazy!

The Head

The penis head, also known as the glans, is comparable to the clitoris.

It has the most nerve endings on the penis.

Of interesting note is the fact that the highest concentration of nerves is around the outer ridge of the head.

The most intense sensations can be derived from kissing, licking, and sucking all over the penis head.

Just be sure to be gentle!

Although the head often provides the best pleasure for a man, being too rough can actually be quite painful.

Along the same lines, be sure to keep your teeth away from the penis head as much as possible!

Lastly, note that if your man is uncircumcised, pleasuring their head directly will do more than pleasuring it through the foreskin.

This is simply because all of the nerve endings are on the penis head underneath!

But if your man wants less stimulation, then stimulating the foreskin overthe head may be ideal.

The Frenulum

This region is the V-shaped part under the head of the penis, where the head meets the shaft.

And it is a great spot for stimulation

While not as sensitive as the head itself, the frenulum is the most sensitive region on the shaft.

The ideal way to stimulate this region is to use your tongue and swirl it around the region.

Or simply lick the frenulum up and down, with varying pressures for varying sensations!

The Scrotum and Testicles

If you know anything about a man’s testicles, you know that they are very sensitive!

However, guys still really enjoy when women (or men) play with their balls.

This includes the scrotum, which is the sack that holds the testicles.

But their nerve endings are slightly different than that of the rest of the penis.

To pleasure a man using his balls, simply cupping them with your hands can be a great sensation.

Kissing or licking them are also great tactics, as long as you are gentle with them!

Being too rouch on the testicles is probably the single way to completely turn a guy off mid-blowjob.

If not getting completely upset at you!

Don’t be afraid to focus on his balls – just take it slow and tread lightly!

Other key regions

The above key points explain regions of the penis that give men the most pleasure.

But in reality, men can often also be pleasured by targeting these other nearby areas:

The Perineum

This is simply the area between the scrotum and the anus.

Simply using your fingers to stroke this area can be pleasing to guys (and girls).

Or you can apply firm pressure there as well.

Timing the pressure and stroking to other sexual acts can really elevate the sensation.

For example, stroke or press the perineum in time to every stroke of the shaft, or in time to every deep throat you give on the shaft.

This coordination really does wonders!

The Anus

The anus is such a great place for stimulation, not only for women, but for men as well.

If your man is open to anal play, then you have yet another option to lean on when pleasuring him.

In which case, check out our guide to anal stimulation for more details and ideas.

Putting it all together

Now that you know all of the potential pleasure points on your man, how do you put it all together to provide the ultimate blowjob (or handjob)?

Here are three tips to always keep in mind while pleasuring your man:

Experiment!

The key for providing the best oral (or manual) stimulation is to experiment!

The reason being is simply that all men are different!

They are not only turned on by different things, but turned off by certain things as well!

Try different regions and see what your man likes or doesn’t like.

And use that knowledge for the next time you pleasure your man.

Stimulate multiple spots at once!

This is especially true when giving your man head (i.e. oral sex).

Try sucking on his head or licking his shaft, while at the same time gently cupping his balls.

Or sucking on his balls while stroking his shaft.

Any variation of two stimulations is a great way to amplify the pleasure for him.

Mix it up!

By this, we simply mean: don’t stick to any single action.

After a few minutes, change what parts of your man you are stimulating.

This will keep him on his toes and give him even more pleasure overall.

Male Stimulation – Practice Makes Perfect!

As you can see, the penis is a complex organ, with multiple regions that provide immense pleasure in different ways!

And this is not even including the surrounding region that includes the perineum and the anus itself!

Soon, Blissful Cherry will be offering penis toys, just for that special man in your life!

We have a wide range of products that are sure to satisfy you in new and exciting ways.

And while you are busy pleasuring yourself with any number of our luxury sex toys, don’t neglect your man and instead use the knowledge in this guide to give him pleasurable times as well!

BEGINNER’S GUIDE TO TANTRA

 

 In a world of high stress, to-do-lists, and constantly running out of time, tantra is the perfect antidote to the routine that develops in every romantic relationship.

This beautiful art of conscious, sacred sexuality has been practiced for thousands of years by Tantric couples in order to achieve authentic love, deep and passionate connection, and Spiritual enlightenment.

And absolutely anyone today can draw from the ancient reservoir of knowledge and wisdom of our ancient ancestors!

TIP 1: MAKE TIME FOR A WEEKLY SESSION

Commit to a weekly tantric session with your partner. Pick a day and time that works for both of you.

Set aside at least two hours to truly celebrate your relationship. Do not reschedule even if you’re feeling tired, as your tantric session will soon invigorate your body and leave you feeling new, stronger energy flowing through you!

Be sure to stick to your special date, only rescheduling if absolutely necessary. You’ll be amazed by the increased love, connection, and playfulness each session will bring both of you!

TIP 2: BE OPEN TO TRY SOMETHING NEW

Remember to have fun and don’t take yourself too seriously. Have an open mind and open heart, even if something seems silly to you at first.

Many people who are new to tantra have declared the eye-gazing exercise awkward and weird… until they tried it!

Don’t dismiss anything, just set some practices aside until you’re ready to experiment with them later on. And make sure to remain playful and curious – if a practice feels good to both of you, you’re on your way!

 TIP 3: SET THE MOOD

Prepare for your lover by cleaning and adorning your bed with comfortable cushions and blankets. Create a feast for the senses with flowers, light incense sticks (or diffuse essential oils), plus a few fruits and drinks you both enjoy.

Light plenty of candles – their flickering and dim light will bring magic into the space. Put on a soft, relaxing music playlist (that will play for at least 2 hours). And make sure that the temperature is just right so that both of you are comfortable.

 TIP 4: TAKE A CLEANSING & RELAXING BATH

Run a soothing bubble bath for your beloved. Light candles all over the bathroom, add soft music, spread rose petals on the floor, and pour a glass of their favorite wine.

Even better, you can join them in the bath tub!

TIP 5: SHAKE YOUR BODY ALIVE

Re-sensitize your body and to release any tension or blockages.

Stand facing each other with feet hip width apart and slightly bent knees. Take a moment to relax from head to toe and next start shaking your entire body for at least 5 minutes – shake your arms, hands, hips, head, shoulders, legs… You’ll just love the tingling and aliveness you’ll experience afterwards!

This practice helps your bodies experience pleasure in a much deeper, more intense way.

 TIP 6: MEDITATE TOGETHER

Meditate together to clear your minds and connect to your hearts. Sit down cross legged facing each other and close your eyes.

Breathe deeply – simply be together in silence until all the worries of the day are gone. This will help you both become fully present and focused on each other.

You can also play a guided meditation, meditative music, or just sit in silence.

 TIP 7: TELL YOUR BELOVED WHAT YOU LOVE ABOUT THEM

Look them lovingly in the eye, and begin each sentence with ‘I really love…’.

To open your hearts even deeper and create more connection and intimacy, use the following phrases (and fill in the blanks):

‘”My heart truly desires… “, “It brings me a lot of pleasure when you… ”

Once you’ve finished, invite your beloved to do the same for you and thank them afterwards.

 TIP 8: LOOK DEEPLY INTO EACH OTHERS EYES

Look into the eyes of your beloved: the gateway to the Soul, and ask them to do the same.

Try to eye-gaze between 5 and 15 minutes. It will feel like a long time at first until you connect on the Soul level, and this connection will feel wonderful and delicious.

To deepen the experience, synchronize your breaths so that you inhale and exhale at the same time.

 TIP 9 SIT IN YAB-YUM POSE

This traditional tantric pose is a wonderful way to connect intimately with your beloved.

The male partner sits down cross legged, while the female sits down on top of his legs facing him (clothed or naked). Embrace each other and breathe fully together. Allow your bodies to tune in to each other; to merge together in this beautiful embrace.

Feel the love you both share, the appreciation for this special moment, and the joy of being able to celebrate your relationship!

 TIP 10 ENGAGE IN A TANTRIC KISS

Still sitting in the yab yum position, breathe together and imagine that you’re sharing each other’s breath. Then join your lips in a soft, gentle kiss.

Allow your lips to melt together in a slow sensual kiss. Relax and savor the kiss as you caress your beloved’s lips with your own.

Stay completely present in the moment and immerse yourself in the sensations of closeness and intimacy.

 TIP 11 GIVE OR RECEIVE A TANTRIC MASSAGE

Have him (or her) lay face down, as you awaken their body to various sensations.

Softly touch their skin with flowers, fabrics, feathers, ice, hot wax, fingertips. Begin with a gentle touch, then proceed to longer, fuller. Start at non-erogenous zones (back, neck, head, hands, legs, feet), then slowly excite their sexual energy, touching their bottom, inner thighs and genitals.

Have your lover turn over, and repeat on the front of their body – awakening their skin with soft touch, then massaging their non-erogenous zones first before proceeding to their chest, nipples, inner thighs and genitals.

Keep asking for feedback and remind your beloved to relax, breathe fully, and stay present.

HOW TO END YOUR SESSION

At this point, you both may decide to make love – or not. If not, simply lay in each other’s embrace, and share your feelings in a soft, loving conversation.

If you do decide to make love, do not rush it. Allow the penetration to happen naturally, without any effort.

Start with slow, shallow thrusts, and remain completely aware of your bodies, your energies and particularly your genital area. Guide your consciousness to travel up and down your spine – between your heart and your genitals, and notice all the sensations in your body.

And as you start to move again, allow your genitals to connect lovingly, and melt together in a sensual, ecstatic dance.

Take your time! Tantra is not a chase to an orgasm – it’s a feast of pleasure, and as long as you’re both experiencing plenty of it, you’re on the right track!

Love,

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